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So much for getting some action.
My flight was a two hours late and to my horror, my ex-bestie was on it.
I scratched my head, wondering how such misfortune could befall me. I’d moved to a pretty isolated part of the country, sure that such encounters could be avoided.
Damn the tourism industry!
She hadn’t spotted me. Maybe the cap and the shades helped.
But I knew her – even though it had been close to a decade that I had last seen her. She was also by herself.
Then I corrected myself. I saw two women walk up to her, the trio started chatting excitedly about something. So, she had made new friends.
Friends. If you could call them that. The person that I knew her to be was someone who couldn’t distinguish a friend from a foe. She always ended up making friends with the wrong people and then acted as if the world had ended. That was one of the reasons that I had decided to drift away. I was always the one trying to buck her up and make her see that the world wasn’t such a shitty place till I realized I was just a therapist and nothing else. She’d stopped spending time with me, citing her career took up all of her free time.
I wasn’t dumb. Let me give you a piece of advice. If someone is too busy for you – all the time and where it seems like interacting with you is just a chore for them on their to – do – list – do yourself a favor and walk away. You’ll thank me for it later.
I walked away too.
Back then, when I wasn’t in great control of my feelings I’d felt blue about it for a long time. Now, well I could look at this situation dispassionately. Did I feel nostalgic? Yes. I did. But I didn’t dwell on it. That’s will power and being mentally strong. I’m not bragging. I’m being honest.
Soon it was time to board the flight. I walked past her, she didn’t even realize I was there. I chuckled softly.
Somethings never change.
To be continued….